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Hey Mom and Dad, What Worries You Most About Your Children's Future?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

Welcome to "Hey Mom and Dad"—a weekly feature in which we ask our Facebook fans to share their views on parenting. Every week, we get the conversation started by taking a look back at a question we asked parents the week before on Patch Facebook pages from around the area.

That brings us to this week's question:

When it comes to your kids growing up, what worries you the most about their future?

Take a look at what people had to say and join the conversation in the comments section.

Patty H. As a middle school teacher, I see and hear EVERYTHING! That in and of itself makes me worried. via Oswego Patch Facebook

Jennifer M. For my teen, getting in a car with someone who shouldn't be driving. I'm terrified of him getting in an accident! via Yorkville Patch Facebook

Mark D. Being surrounded by uneducated, unappreciative, spoiled brats raised by incompetent parent(s). Oh, wait. That's already happening. via Joliet Patch Facebook

Michelle B. Everything pretty much, I'm a mom and I will worry about my child until the day I die, no matter how old they are! My one major worry is that I haven't prepared him for the real world, the world now is a much crueler world than when I was his age!!! via Bolingbrook Patch Facebook

Anna G. Making sure they don't get involved with the worng crowd n drugs , but I hope that they get a great education and go to college. via Plainfield Patch Facebook

So what's your take? Tell us in the comments. 

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Bob February 26, 2013 at 12:40 pm
Our worthless president spending all their money before they are born.
Logansdad February 26, 2013 at 12:51 pm
Don't worry Bob, Dubya is out of office and has been for over 5 years now.
anonymous February 26, 2013 at 01:38 pm
Logansdad-after 5 years still blaming W-Prez BrO is nothing more than a much more extreme version of W.
anonymous February 26, 2013 at 02:09 pm
Patty H comment from above-from a tenured union teacher that works about half the year and is part of an educational system that always ranks low compared to most of the developed world you probably shouldn't be complaining-you should be more concerned about never getting that nice pension the broke state of IL promised you.
Logan February 26, 2013 at 02:50 pm
My Dad and people who think like him.
Jimmy February 26, 2013 at 03:40 pm
While the state pension system is a broken one, I hate to see the teachers that dedicate their lives to help raise and teach everyone else's family take the blame. The job of a teacher isn't typically one that is lucrative, of course there are exceptions and there are ones that take advantage of the system, but good teachers need to be rewarded and not be the punching bags they have been.
No intention on attacking anyone's views or opinions, but the benefit that a teacher earns is widely misunderstood. A teacher contributes their share, by law around 10%, into their pension fund. They are then required to work until the age of 55,which may not allow them to receive their full benefit depending on years of service. However they are now required to work until 67, who wants a 67 year old watching a room full of their kindergarten kids, or believes that a 67 year old is able to control a room full of teenagers? In addition to a pension they may not be able to maximize, teachers are not eligible to receive social security benefits that all other tax payers receive. As far as a teachers schedule and salary, having teachers as friends and family, I can tell you they are certainly busier than the 8-3, Monday thru Friday, for 9 months everyone gives them a lack of credit for. What isn't seen by most of us is the teacher going in early to prepare, staying late to help a struggling child or working with a parent, working on their class and curriculum before school is in session.
Kbell February 26, 2013 at 03:40 pm
Finding a job without at least a 4 year college education...moving out of the house before they are 30...ever being able to retire. I think as an adult we run into the same issues our kids are going to.
Jimmy February 26, 2013 at 03:46 pm
I'll also add that teachers that decided long ago that this was going to be their career path realized that they weren't going to get rich, that as hard as they worked there would be little room for advancement or raises. Those who don't work in the public sector have different opportunity, for better or worse. The measure of a teachers hard work is in the kids, not by the car they drive or the neighborhood they live in.
Kellita Jones February 26, 2013 at 06:42 pm
That one day my beautifully, brilliant kids will not be judged by the color of their skin first!
Melissa February 26, 2013 at 08:18 pm
A VVSD education.
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Dustin Tracy June 15, 2013 at 09:49 pm
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Dustin Tracy June 15, 2013 at 09:50 pm
Ginny- you make great points. Thank you.
Joe Smith June 17, 2013 at 12:23 am
The school district and park district basically run this town. If you don't like it, leave. That'sRead More the way it has been for 20 years and it isn't going to change. Anytime there is talk of voting down one of their major referendums, the ensuing debate becomes very predictable. Most notably, they threaten to go nuclear and cut sports and the band and that scares residents into shelling out the cash. Remember when the OHS band went to the Rose Bowl parade years ago? There was a referendum not long after that where they said the band would be cut if it didn't pass. Those are the politics these leaches play. And I call them leaches because that's all they are. They suck the blood (property tax cash) from Oswego. There are sooooo many things from over the years I could write here. One that really stands out is a full color booklet that was sent to residents explaining that the Oswego school system was lagging behind and that they needed more money. It was later determined that a construction company paid for the booklet to be sent out. So basically they were trying to convince Oswego residents undercover that we needed more schools..... for them to get the contracts to build. And don't even get me started on the Oswego Ledger newspaper, which has the reach to set the record straight on a lot of things. They are great for coverage of area events and whatnot, but their political coverage has always been a disgrace. I've often wondered if the local government has the paper in their back pocket. That was as of a few years ago. I haven't given them my money since then. Maybe it has changed. If so, I would gladly subscribe again. If you go out into the community and talk about the property taxes and where they are going, everyone agrees that something needs to be done. Don't be fooled by the extremely vocal minority that shows up online (such as on this page) to support the way things currently are.