Reyna Martinez Found Safe by Plainfield Police

Maureen November 9, 2012 at 09:02 pm

Karie, I would fight to the death to defend my daughter and I was outraged about Tim's comments and accusations. I can't imagine the fear that must have been going through your body and mind not knowing where your child could be, and to have a "monster" condemn you for not being a "good parent" is ludicrous! I am not a single parent, however my daughter has a different last name than I do, but that is because she is adopted. Does that make me a bad parent for saving the life of a child and allowing her to keep her name? If so, then I will continue to be that bad paent and continue praying for you and your family. I posted my comment to Tim already and as 99% of the readers of this post agree, Tim needs some severe psychological counseling. It is nice to hear a happy ending to a story, and don't let the "haters" of the world upset you. God Bless You and Best Wishes Always...

Tina November 9, 2012 at 09:10 pm

Good for your Karie! My family and I will keep you in our prayers. I was a single mom for almost 9 years and just recently (September) married an incredible man. We just experienced a similar situation with my oldest - but things were put in his head from a TOXIC person. It's HARD at this age and beyond but KEEP UP FIGHTING. As my mom told me when I went through my experience - parenting is 10x tougher than when she was raising us as a single mom (my dad passed away) but no matter how hard, heartbreaking, or frustrating these times get (teen years), don't ever give up - our kids will thank us when they are adults...just like I did :)

Tim November 9, 2012 at 09:24 pm

You can make as many accusations as you want, but you also have not decided to involve the use of public resources with your claims. If you called the police with those same accusations, that would be a different story, wouldn't it?
Personally, I think the mother should be held financially responsible for involving the use of public resources in what was obviously an internal family matter. The police said from day one, that there was no foul play involved. That means the police were well aware she left of her own will. There was no chance she was ever in danger. The police simply stated in the most politically correct manner possible, that this was nothing more than an overblown case of family drama. This isn't 'news', unless you are reading a 'TeenBeat' magazine. It is meaningless gossip that the mother decided to involve public resources in. Just as a point of comparison, without knowing the whole story would you expect so many people to express their thanks that a wife was 'reunited' with her husband? What if the story you didn't know was that the wife left the home because she was being abused? The point, is for so many people to express their 'thankfulness' for a story they have no idea of the details of, is baffling. Until the whole story comes out, it is very premature to express relief. For all anyone knows, she left a house she was being abused in. I hope that is not the case, but I cant be 'thankful' to a story that I have no idea of the details of.

Monica November 9, 2012 at 09:27 pm

I am going to agree with Tim here, I would rather spend my time looking for my child than kneeling by my bed praying to something that doesn't exist. I am fine if people feel comfort in believing in a higher power, but stop bashing this man for thinking for himself. He has not said anything out of line, he is simply pointing out facts and making keen observations. You are allowed to have your religious beliefs and others are allowed to have freedom from religious beliefs. I hope the girl is found safe and sound. I hope all that happened is that she made a cry for attention by running away.

Monica November 9, 2012 at 09:29 pm

Scott, I am guessing that you call yourself a religious man, so why would you wish pain and suffering on another person? If you believe in a higher power than that higher power will be deeply disappointed by your behavior.

Monica November 9, 2012 at 09:31 pm

Stop forcing your religious beliefs on people.

Nancy November 9, 2012 at 09:31 pm

Wow...how things have gotten out of hand since I first made the first comment on Oswego Patch about Reyna. Nasty people....Really...
I am sooooooooooooooo glad that she is ok. What ever the reasons why she left, I beleive that between love, faith and communication...things can be worked out. When it boils down to life...what really matters are the people you love and the people that love you. No matter if we know the family or don't know them...no one wants to see a death or loss of such a sweet girl. It would be tragic for all involved. Lets be grateful !!! Reyna- Jennifer says "Hi" and take care ...

Pat Hisaw November 9, 2012 at 09:33 pm

So glad she was found safe and sound. I'm not sure what is up with this Tim guy or why he felt the need to comment at all. Something awful must have happened to him and he just felt the need to bring that to everyone's attention for some unknown reason. So okay Tim...I'll feel sorry for you but only because I pity you.

Rhonda November 9, 2012 at 09:41 pm

Hello, Reyna's mother I am very happy that your daughter is at home and safe with you and your family. By me being a parent of three girls and son I CAN imagine what you were feeling and thinking but thank god it turned out with an happy ending. I have a 16 year old thats the youngest still in high school. I live in a nice area in Plainfield, her bus stop is a block away and I MAKE SURE she is dropped off and waited on until the bus arrives. Just because there are so many sick freaks out here just waiting for you to let your guards down. Stay safe God bless you and your family.

Nora November 9, 2012 at 10:40 pm

Anyone that is a true Christian, please do not fuel the disbelief of these non-believers by being nasty. That is what they are lookinf for. We know the state the world is in and we know the devil is always busy and will use any vessel to attack. Continue to pray and be a beacon to the world with not only your actions, but your words. We are the only light in a world of darkness. Praise God this young lady is safe and I will pray that God works on her and her family regarding any situation known or unknown. No one on this thread needs to know anything that lead to this young lady leaving home. God knows and is more than capable of fixing this families hearts.

Donna DiTusa November 9, 2012 at 11:11 pm

So glad your daughter is back home.

Oswego Gladys November 10, 2012 at 12:42 am

Glad she's home. I know many were concerned.

Beverly Ann Ecton Strasser November 10, 2012 at 01:06 am

Prayers were answered and as all struggles remind us how much we need God in the difficult times. We have enough food to feed everyone but free will holds some back from giving to those less fortunate. Let us learn how to solve a problem and not create one. Thank you Lord for all your blessings and let that little girl of 13 know she is loved by you and her mother. We are all sinners that make mistakes. Prayers will be answered in Gods time and based on what plan he has for us. If Tim does not pray and believe God hears him, I hope others will pray for him.

Kristine November 10, 2012 at 01:08 am

Tim, Let me just clear up some issues. I am the aunt of Reyna. I can tell you that she was NOT abused at home. You ask why were the police involved. They are there to serve and protect. They used their service to bring my niece home, and they did a fine job! My sister has already paid for this service by paying her taxes so no need to cry boo hoo about who is paying for what? :-)

Kristine November 10, 2012 at 01:31 am

I would also like to personally thank the community for their thoughts and prayers for my niece as they brought her home! God is Good!!

evelyn hurte November 10, 2012 at 01:43 am

I'm glad She's home safe and sound. The thing that angers me, is these kids running away from home. I don't know the family situation, but I do know, that these kids today, do not like the word No! I am a single mom of a daughter and I Thank God that she has never attempted to run away. But there is always that possibility, because, like I stated earlier, they don't like the word No! It has nothing to do with parenting or the last name. I am constantly reminding my daughter of the things that could happen, if she decides to go. She may not come home safe. As we all know, teenagers think they are invincible and my daughter is one of them. It angers me that these kids purposely put their parents through something like this. If something that bad is happening at home, then let the authorities know. Otherwise stay home and talk it out. Once again, I thank God She's home, it could have turned out for the worse.

Lisa November 10, 2012 at 04:00 am

Hi Karie,
So glad Reyna is home safe. Been worried sick about her all week. God is good! Hallie & Lexi's mom

Debbie Zolnierowicz November 10, 2012 at 12:34 pm

Thank goodness she was located, and apparently unharmed. And Tim is obviously a moron but I have to pile on here...any time a minor is 'missing', they are in danger. Most children do not run away expecting to end up on the streets, on drugs, selling themselves, begging for food, searching for a safe place to sleep...yet this is what can happen in the blink of an eye. Thankfully this CHILD had resources to turn to when she thought leaving home was the solution. That is not always the case, and that situation can change in a heartbeat. The police take these matters seriously because they are serious. Why do you think there are curfews for minors? It's not just to keep them from keying your car or sneaking beer out of the fridge...it's to protect them too. God bless this family as they try to address the problems up to this.

Larry valenzio November 10, 2012 at 01:39 pm

Thank you GOD! You answered our prayers again!!!!!!

Sargent November 10, 2012 at 03:23 pm

Good news!

thecockycountryboy November 10, 2012 at 04:00 pm

felt this all the way in California! Glad to hear she is ok!

Becky November 10, 2012 at 04:28 pm

Wow.... Tim, why don't you go take some deep breaths and relax. It's sad that you immediately gravitate towards negativity. You need to stop and smile every once in a while. Life will be happier for you. If you do feel that your life is happy, then please take a step back and share that positivity with the world, not hurtful and fear based commentary.
Karie, I'm very happy to hear that your daughter has been found safe. I do not have children but I know how awful that must have been for you.

Basha November 10, 2012 at 06:55 pm

Happy to hear Reyna is safe. So many people were worried about her. Blaming or accusing her family was uncalled for. In general, we should all be concerned about the way our young teen girls are acting these days. All the drama and all "about me". I agree with the woman who brought up they can't take "NO" for an answer. One thing I cannot tolerate is disrespect. These kids aren't our "best friends" and can't have and do whatever they want. They are NOT the boss. To rebel or get attention some are swearing, developing eating disorders, doing drugs, cutting themselves, having sex, etc.... the list goes on. I saw some pretty nasty posts on FACEBOOK a couple weeks ago, with frequent use of the "f" word, which in most cases, was used in reference to sex. And posts about being bi-sexual - girl preferring girl?? At 13? That was very disturbing to say the least. This is unacceptable and I suggest to anyone with young teenagers to MONITOR their Facebook account. And please, What's up with the pictures of young girls sticking out their tongue?? I'm sure the young boys get a thrill out of that.... I think it's disgusting!

Robert Green November 10, 2012 at 07:16 pm

By the way...you have no freedom of speech on a privately owned and operated BLOG. You have the right to say what they allow you to say within their terms of service and the FCC will back them up!

Julie November 11, 2012 at 06:56 am

Wow!? Someone asked me to forward Reyna's picture last week so I thought I would check in to see if there was any news as I know I would be devastated if it were my child or someone I knew. I was completely shocked by the comments from Tim. Obviously, anyone with connected brain cells knows that a teenage girl's emotions are in overdrive and anything can make them upset and act impulsively regardless of how good or bad their family situation is. One the other hand, she very well could have been abducted by a child molestor. If it were my child, I would be grateful for any kind of help including prayers, FB Sharing, looking for her... Tim needs to get a life and focus on his own life since he has no interest in helping here. I recommend not engaging in his his ignorant, uneducated posts. Just saying...

Julie November 11, 2012 at 06:58 am

Sorry about the typos above and forgot to mention that I thank God that she has returned home safe.

sunbeam November 12, 2012 at 06:07 pm

Thank God, Reyna is home and safe... still lifting the family in prayer for a strengthening of their relationship... mothers/daughters... can be a tough one... we all need prayer in raising our children... for wisdom, patience and loving discipline.

sunshine November 12, 2012 at 08:27 pm

They're not forcing it on anyone. You can't make anyone not pray for you. And Tim is the one who brought this up in the first place. And again with the accusations of a bad living situation--know your facts and if she did come from that, the police are at least involved.

Reasonable Conservative November 14, 2012 at 01:49 pm

Sunbeam says it all. Excellent comment. That being said, I am always amazed at the hate spewed at Tim and others on this site for simply stating their opinion. His opinion, if different from others (and it is quite different), is valid and makes a point we must all consider. It is a crime in Illinois to make a false police report, pull a fire alarm as a prank or claim your child was abducted if she was not. I do not know the facts so as of now I will just be glad she is safe and with her family. Give Tim a break and let him to his opinion. Has anyone asked how much it cost in resources to find this girl and why the story was reported as it was?

Chris November 24, 2012 at 12:18 pm

Tim and Monica are just trolls. Ignore them. And they cease to exist.